Why Missing Your Goals Can Be a Good Thing . . . Really!

Key Points to Remember about Setting and Achieving Your Goals

As we barrel toward the end of this year, I’ve been thinking a lot about my 2016 goals.

It looks like my success rate in 2016 will be 40 percent. When I first noticed this, I was disappointed. I was even tempted to think horrible things about myself: “I’m a loser! I’m no good!”

But here’s what I’m learning about setting and achieving goals: It is more art than science, and like any art, proficiency takes time.

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Those Sneaky Goals!

I tend to think our lives are composed of short-, medium-, and long-term projects. Short-term projects are things like mowing the lawn or cooking dinner. Medium-length projects are things like renovating a kitchen or developing a product or editing a manuscript. Long-term projects are measured in years—like earning a college degree.

Here’s the thing. Goals are sneaky. Setting and achieving goals seems like a short-term project (setting goals) followed by a series of medium-term projects (actually achieving those goals). But what’s missing here is the reality that the whole endeavor of setting and achieving goals is a long-term project.

You get better at it as you do it. Over time (and if you’re setting goals annually, from year to year) you learn:

  • How to pick your goals
  • When to let goals go
  • When to change strategies to achieve your goals
  • The importance of setting some realistic goals, some stretch goals

Key Things I’ve Learned about Goals

So how do I feel about my 40 percent success rate? I’m okay with it!

For one thing the goals I did accomplish are really important to me, and I may not have hit them if I hadn’t gone through the process of setting and pursuing them.

For example, one of the goals I achieved was “Go on a two- to three-night hiking/camping trip with Lucas [my son] by September 1, 2016.” Below is a snapshot of our trip.

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We packed in all our belongings and planned to filter water from a nearby lake, but a friendly outgoing neighbor gave us two two-gallon containers of the good stuff. Score!

We had a blast! In fact, Lucas and I enjoyed this trip so much we’re planning to do it again in 2017.

Also, when it comes to the annual process of setting goals and the throughout-the-year process of achieving goals, I’m a newbie. Learning how to do it well is a long-term project. It’s going to take time.

One more thing. My friend David Wenzel reminded me of this: If you achieve all your goals, they’re probably too easy.  My goals, I can safely say, were not easy.

Would I have liked to hit more of my goals? Of course! But I did accomplish things I wouldn’t have otherwise, and I’m going to cut myself some slack because I’m new to this whole annual goal-setting thing.

What about Your Goals?

Where are you in all this? Did you set goals for 2016 and you’ve already forgotten them? Did you set goals but failed to achieve them? Did you nail every goal you set? Are you looking back at 2016 wishing you had set goals?

Whatever your situation is, I want to encourage you to jump in to this long-term project of setting and achieving your goals. You know the old adage: “If you don’t have a target, you’ll hit it every time.” As I engage the process, I hope you will too.

If you want to get started today, consider taking the LifeScore Assessment, designed by my friend Michael Hyatt. Your LifeScore Assessement will give you a quick glimpse into how you’re doing in a variety of areas in your life, from personal to professional.

I just took it and got a 63. It was fun to take. It’s quick. And it’s a great way to begin entering the goal-setting mindset.

To get your own score, CLICK HERE.

Idea: After you take the LifeScore Assessment, stop back here and leave a comment with your LifeScore and your own thoughts about goal setting. I look forward to hearing from you. You can leave a comment by clicking here.

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9 thoughts on “Why Missing Your Goals Can Be a Good Thing . . . Really!

  1. I got a 73 on my Life Assessment.

    I set two major goals this year (finish my book, get my weight under 200 pounds), and and I’m going to miss them both. This is the second year in a row that will be the case. I’m not sure if it is a motivation problem or a execution problem at this point.

    • Ted, keep on keeping on! I can relate to the weight loss goal. I do think Michael Hyatt’s course is worthwhile, though he just closed registration last night. Hope you were able to take advantage of it.

  2. Excellent post, Chad. Goals are important, and I agree missing some of them isn’t the end of the world. For writing goals, I managed 34%. For my real estate goals, I managed 70%. Real estate really has taken over my life to some degree, but I did spend more time with family this year than last–which was my main goal for 2016.
    My overall LifeScore was 77%. This was a nice exercise to assess where we are and get ready to set goals for 2017.

  3. You’re a good one for making the slacker in us feel better, Chad!
    Thanks!
    No, you actually made me pull out my goals I wrote on January 6th. (That was in response to one of Michael Hyatt’s posts.) My score is 71 – but some of the Qs and As are a bit limiting.
    I realize I focussed so much in January on only my writing and blogging goals, and wrote down 11 goals in that regard, of which I’ve achieved > 50 % (Oh, there’s still 26 days left to add a few as “completed!”) – Yep, I got so busy, I “forgot” about some of the other aspects of my life!
    After completing the LifeScore Assessment it was quite clear – goals are required in ALL aspects of our lives. (Oops)
    Will write better “whole-life” representative ones for 2017.
    Thanks for a sobering take on goal achievement, Chad!

  4. I got a 74 for my life score :)).

    I am an absolute lover of goals – I used to do them weekly, monthly, and annually (I have since cut out monthly. I don’t always get my weekly goals, but they keep me on track. As far as my annual goals, I think I’ve achieved probably 60 percent or so of them. I find them incredibly motivating.

  5. Love this post! I think I clocked in at about 50% on what I planned to achieve…and what I did achieve was a really huge long-term goal, so the ones I didn’t hit feel okay? In August, I started using EOS (from Gino Wickman’s TRACTION book) and it’s really fantastic—I think I’ll hit even more next year.

    • Liza, I have a feeling I know at least one of your 2016 goals! Congratulations on all of your success. I’ll have to check out EOS.

      • LOL—yes, you do know! If you check out EOS, ignore the fact that it’s written for larger companies: I still got tons out of the parts that are unrelated to HR. 😉

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